Online fuss.

Here we go again, back to this space. The time slot before was filled with activities that kept me busy; sorry!.

no waste of time, here goes:

Social networking is the concept of relationships between people. It is the structural social form that made up by individual (or organization ), they  are tied (connected) by one or more specific types of interdependency.(Wiki).

Social networking on the Internet are no longer stranger in the urban society today, it's usage in daily life for some people are sometimes, promotes the addiction towards this, social sites. It's either the person is aware or not, the  social networking sites has taken their time in daily life pretty much enough.Well, that's not my main point here. 

Many of us of social networking user, do not aware of ethics in using all of these social sites. Of course, many out there i believe, would not give a damn about this. Here, i only post for those who got the heart to consider of others only. You may stop here, if you find this is not your business. thank you.

I bet that many out there finds that they are very annoyed towards peoples or either their own friends due to small matters like, game requests in Fb or even your timeline on twitter suddenly changes into a chat room! 

From my point of view, these are all cause by the lack of etiquette awareness in using social networking sites. 

I'm not saying that I'm a professional in social networking. I'm just a normal human doing mistakes repeatedly. 

Thus, i suggest that you guys out there, spend time and search on Google engine,read about the etiquette/ rules and regulations on that particular social site you are using. Hey, you can spend long hours in front of the computer stiffly without a problem, why not . 

There are things to considered, this online sites are public. Many peoples are using it, this is like living in a neighborhood, we want to build a good relationship and take care of other's heart.( if you think the same way). Put that aside, considered of yourself,  there are stuffs that aren't suppose to be shown at public; your private life/ your own life. Take a second, and think. 

I'm sorry if i just stabbed any body's heart due to my harsh words above ( if they does appear in the text). I'm a just a normal person, making mistakes and giving an opinion/ advice. All up to you; to think. Thank you. :)

Mind to fingertips, 

Afq Apnk

I'm just talking crap!

In life, there are so many harshness will be thrown at you, sometimes you will reach a point where you are just too tired of receiving all these difficulties. From all of these, i know there are more peoples out there who are even unlucky compared to me. I always being grateful for all the things that I've own. I know, I'm not a perfect person, I always look at myself as a person who lack of many things in the world. Sorry for those out there who I may hurt their feeling. Doesn't meant to do that.

World is a Big game! so please don't do anything stupid when difficulties fall right in front of you. Accept it wisely. 

I'm in a 'Pile of shit' when I'm writing this, and I hope everything will be just fine.

Here, I welcome 2011 with many hopes and wishes! Insyaallah. Amin. :)

Mind to fingertips,

AfqApnk

Society

Oh, it's a mystery to me
We have a greed with which we have agreed
And you think you have to want more than you need
Until you have it all you won't be free


Society, you're a crazy breed
Hope you're not lonely without me...


When you want more than you have
You think you need...
And when you think more than you want
Your thoughts begin to bleed
I think I need to find a bigger place
Because when you have more than you think
You need more space


Society, you're a crazy breed
Hope you're not lonely without me...
Society, crazy indeed
Hope you're not lonely without me...


There's those thinking, more-or-less, less is more
But if less is more, how you keeping score?
Means for every point you make, your level drops
Kinda like you're starting from the top
You can't do that...


Society, you're a crazy breed
Hope you're not lonely without me...
Society, crazy indeed
Hope you're not lonely without me...


Society, have mercy on me
Hope you're not angry if I disagree...
Society, crazy indeed
Hope you're not lonely without me...


written by: Jerry Hannan
Song: Eddie vedder 

P/s ;
Did you guys notice?? the world that we living is a corrupted world. Every where we go, we can see that we are living in a plastic world. Society, they are fast growing, chasing goals that have been created by human itself. Setting human mind to selected the available goals they created. 
Human is like a virus, they destroyed much things surrounded them; they are willing to do anything they could in order to achieve their goals and satisfied their needs.
Well, enough talking, i'm a normal people called human as well; we do mistakes. 
So, here, it's up to a person. Use your priceless gifts from God, use your wit to live a happy life.Your life, your own choice!


Here, is the recommended movie for you guys:

Into the wild (2007) by Sean Penn.

- this is a drama film based on a non fiction book of the same name that is written by Jon Krakauer, which mean that this is a true story. An inspiring story of Christopher McCandless (Emile Hirsch) adventures throughout his lifetime. Real stories coming from all around the world like this one really inspires and appreciate everything that I've got.
Movie rating : 4.5/ 5


Mind to fingertips,
Afq Apnk

Do i really love this? or i just want to be 'cool?'

Growing up in a city has brought me to meet with different peoples with any kind of attitudes. Teenage years of mixing around with different peoples, make you much more matured in terms of many things. Sometimes, growing up in the city, has let u see the stuffs that teenagers aren't supposed to be exposed in that early ages.
The rebellious fire that burnt inside that make us want to go all against the rules, and how easy i was to lose my temper back then, well, I'm very thankful to god, from the 'ground' that i stood up right now, i can say that I'm not too far away drifting, but it does take me away a bit.


From time to time of me hanging out, there's one thing that i notice in our culture Malaysia; we accepted outside culture easily. Without any questions or judgments, as long as it look cool in our eyes, we took it, adapt it with our culture. however, that's the reason why we've got so many different cultures and genres in our music. Nevertheless, we got so many peoples that have lost their roots and grip.


Above statement is not the topic that i want to discuss out yet,i always get annoyed of poseurs/copycat! poseur is a person who affects some behaviour, style, attitude or other condition, often to impress or influence others but in facts, they are pretending to be something that they didn't have the knowledge ( something that he/she is not).
why?? because as far that i knew, by the time of me hanging out and experiences,
they think that what they do is right and cool/ up-to-date enough, plus they even dare to underrated other people whom they think are not at their 'class'. bulls***!.
I'm not considering I'm a very cool and high standard person, i prefer much silence acts of my own,and stay down low, away from all the main lights. I'm not saying that I'm a good person, neither a bad person, but i have my own 'ground' and fundamental grip that I'm still holding on tight! we must not forget that we still got our religion to be consider!
So,for those people out there, including my friends who think that they might be one of them , please
stop what you are doing, if you are not capable of doing it drastically, get it done gradually.
If you really think that that something is really cool and you have found your interest, make sure you really ask yourself " Do i really love this? or i just want to be 'cool?'" Solve that first! Then, u get to know it slowly.
Don't forget that we all have our own roots and fundamental basis.


mind to fingertips,
-Afq Apnk-

* i think I'm cool enough in this costumes

-YOU ARE A JOKE!

The only drug.

May 2010 is coming to its end, my semester break so far was kind of flat and bored i  assumed. Same routines everyday, again and again, driving me lost and torture my life slowly! Luckily, accompanying me all this while and always does is music. I'm so in love with music. "Music is my hot hot sex", a line from a lyric of the band CSS just suits me and my situation here! When its coming to music, i think there will be not enough space for me to write here, and if i do so, all of you guys must be bored, certainly!

My fond to music does not including and referring to all of the genres, I'm not an all rounded listener, plus, i don't really listen to the mainstream music,I do listened, but not much. Sometimes when people talks about famous artists and their songs, i don't even know about them! How bad is that?ha ha..Of course there are reasons why i walked and past through all these mainstream stuffs, I walks my own path, different path. However, i didn't underestimate them, or want to argue bout it, for me, a true music lover don't judge on other genres, and they don't feel superior of what  they are listening. Sadly and annoying enough, i have had encountered few  peoples that is conversely from what I mentioned above, in my life,and i  just let them with their attitudes, let  it be. 
Back to my subject, my writing here is actually to tell and shares with you guys on how I manage to survive striving hardly enough through boredom. Revealing the secret!:
Music is my 'placebo' surviving this!. Here are my top ten songs of this month.( I listened to these songs repeating all over again this month.)

• Bedroom Avenue,by Goodnight Electric.
• Vanished, by Crystal Castles.
• Courtship Dating, by Crystal Castles.
• Amsterdam, by Peter Bjorn and John.
• Falling Down, by Oasis.
• The Sun Smells Too Loud, by Mogwai.
• Girls and Boys in School, by Neon Trees.
• Black Balloon, by The Kills.
• Growing Pains, by La Roux.
• Cath, by Death Cab for Cutie.

 Music has inspired and drug me.This is my drug. Well if anyone read this, and shares the same interests with me, we can exchange our listening materials.
Feel free to do so.:)
Mind to Fingertips,
-Afq Apnk-

Ciggies Love

Literally, I'm breathing toxic everyday, this is a love to death fairytale,"happily ever after..." Ha ha, well i know this kind of love will eventually taken its toll on me. I've heard someone once said, "Smoking effects on human is just the same if we consumed chicken excessively..." and i do believe that. Eating chicken or anything meaty will gives bad effects on you, and the same goes with smoking, in facts if anything goes over the limit or below the right requirement, will affects you, it must run smoothly with appropriate amount and the right proportions, within the right time. They must be controlled.
Starting just for fun and want to try how it feels, I finally, officially become a smoker, life in the campus has dragged me to this, well, how can i run? Everyone around me is a smoker, plus with the pressure compressing in, and letting myself  know how "best" is ciggies before; doesn't help! Ha ha..
Smoking ciggies the best way for me are:

• Enjoying it with coffee.
• When feelings/minds are intertwined.
• Cold weather or rainy day.
• With loud music.
• After eating a great meals for sure.

However, my smoking habit is still under controlled i supposed, just like i said before, I managed to set how many ciggies must I enjoyed in a day.:) One thing for sure, I've promised to my self, "I will not taking any damn drugs!"; I have seen how these things dragging people, and I will not be fooled by them!
Bottom of it, whoever want to mess with these, think thoroughly, and don't forget, everything has their own level of limitation.
Mind to fingertips,
-Afq Apnk-